Three Little Words
— Three loaded words. They mean infatuation, attraction, hope, desire, desperation, happiness, fear, jealousy, commitment, and a shit-ton more. We say them when we think we mean them when we hope we...
View ArticleHis and Yours
Do you ever worry that the chemistry will fizzle in your relationship? Or does it seem as though the butterflies have already flown away? Don’t worry. This video contains a game plan to save you....
View ArticleI’m Addicted to Women’s Desire
— I’m addicted to women’s desire It seems to be one of the main ways I measure my self worth This creates a lack of safety for women I interact with Because I need something from them I need them to...
View ArticleHow to Balance Work, Life, and Your Ambition
— Finding the right work-life balance is hard enough, but what if we add ambition to the mix. According to Webster’s, ambition is “an ardent desire for rank, fame or power.” Is it possible to have it...
View ArticleFacing It by Sam Gainsborough
. Facing It by Sam Gainsborough from Sam Gainsborough on Vimeo. . “Facing It” is this week’s Staff Pick Premiere. Read more about it on the Vimeo Blog:...
View ArticleFor or Against?
I just had this revelation. I have been so hung up on going “against” things, standing “against” things, thinking that I was doing the world a favor by standing against the things that are “wrong.”...
View ArticleThe Difference Between Desire and Arousal
— Sexual desire vs. sexual arousal – believe it or not, they’re two very different concepts, despite the fact that we tend to think of them as the same. And the difference matters. As a sex therapist,...
View ArticleThe Secret To Desire In a Long-Term Relationship [Video]
— But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire? With wit and eloquence, Perel lets us...
View Article¡Padrísimo! – Parte Tres
Steal Dad’s Phone Padrísimo (adjective) (colloquial) (Mexico) a. great, awesome Padre, Spanish for father, is one of many words within the magical lexicon of Mexican slang. It means cool. Great. ¡Qué...
View ArticleI Love You, You Love Them, and They Love Someone Else
Do you have a crush on someone? Are you hoping that they will like you back one day as much as you like them? If that happens, awesome. You two can start a new chapter in your lives. But what if your...
View ArticleIt Is Still Not Too Late To Form a More Perfect Union
At this inflection point in United States history: I wish to live in a country that accepts the huddled masses yearning to breathe free and makes dreams come true for beautiful dreamers. I wish to...
View ArticleThis Is What We Really Need. ASAP
By David Andersson Our “modern” society is facing many challenges, each one as important as the next: the environment, economy, violence, health, education, security, energy, food, concentration of...
View ArticleDesire as Your Compass
In a conversation with a coaching client, we talked about how easy it is to fall into comfort. The people we connect with, the jobs we do, our bland relationships, how we live our lives, our...
View ArticleSpiritual Colonic
I wear many professional hats: journalist, author, therapist, speaker, minister, healer, radio show host social worker, PR goddess, reiki master and clown. My resume is two pages long and growing. My...
View ArticleSteamy Hotel Afternoons
I passed the Hilton Garden Inn almost every day in my daily errands. I smiled every time. Why? Because I remembered. I remembered afternoons so steamy I asked him to crank the air conditioning....
View ArticleMaking the Meaning You Crave
Say that an experience felt meaningful. Might you nevertheless denounce it as fraudulent? Yes, you might. It is completely possible to experience something as meaningful and then announce that it was...
View ArticleDesire and Happiness
When I put income at the forefront of my life, I find that I either pinch off money, happiness, or both. My restlessness increases and my thoughts, feelings, and emotions become infected with...
View ArticleOne Venti Romance With No Fairytale Please
Every time I bump into a wannabe princess longing for her fairytale romance, I remember this funny cartoon and I giggle. I used to dream of a fairytale too. I was a huge fan of Cinderella, although I...
View ArticleWhat Are You Gonna Do Today, Napoleon?
What Are You Gonna Do Today, Napoleon? Have you ever seen the movie, Napoleon Dynamite? I finally saw it for the first time a few weeks ago…and am still laughing when I think back to some of the...
View ArticleThe Grass Is Greener
Kitty corner from our driveway is a lovely home with enough acreage to pasture two horses, Butterscotch and Nutmeg. Recently the owners had a landscaping team put trees in along the fence line. In an...
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