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How Do I Stop Leading People On?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, This is a pretty minor problem compared to a lot of the ones that you deal with, but I’ve really valued your advice over the years, so I thought I’d send it in anyway. I was very...
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5 “Red Flags” That Are Normal In Long-Term Relationships
Partners create happiness in relationships. It is never a must or a guarantee. Every day, two people’s moods will fight for dominance and expression. Picking your person is a choice every second of...
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Moving From Desire to Action
I’ve been noticing lately how much of our lives is spent wanting to do something, wishing we could do something … but struggling to move into action. What’s the struggle to make this transition all...
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Why Won’t a Man Romance Me?
MISS INDEPENDENCE Bad tinder swipes. Bumble stings. IG direct message requests to get laid. Ladies you’ve seen it all. Fellas look at an attractive woman’s DM at your own risk. Most guys can’t handle...
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What Do Men Really Want in Bed? The Surprising Truth from a Cam Girl
My friend Lexi Sparkle has been a cam girl for almost 3 years and I’ve heard a lot of colorful stories from the virtual life of an online sex worker. It’s true that being a cam girl is not always...
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A (Love) Letter to Mankind
CUT! At 16, I resolutely marched to a hairdresser to pursue my newfound purpose: switch categories. “I want my brother’s haircut” I announced with unusual confidence. The hairdresser opened his eyes...
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They Want Commitment, Just Not With You
I was 26 and in the prime of my life I had a good job, a nice car, and lived in the beautiful city of Los Angeles By many standards life was really good I was even starting to dip my toe into the...
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Love and Lust Can Be Opposing Forces
There’s a show my partner and I enjoyed immensely, called Californication. Aside from starring David Duchovny, who manages to be a ladies’ man and a man’s man simultaneously as brilliant writer Hank...
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Rudyard Kipling and Desire
[Paul Madonna, the well-known San Francisco artist who beautifully illustrated my book A Writer’s San Francisco, was recently seriously injured in a car accident. I am wishing him a very speedy...
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Desire: The Missing Link
What drives committed long-term partners to seek out affairs? Desire for a specific person? A need for more sexual fulfillment? What are they not getting at home that moves someone to look elsewhere?...
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Learn the Secrets of Desire and Rekindle the Fire
Why does good sex so often fade even for couples who continue to love each other as much as ever? Why does good intimacy not guarantee good sex contrary to popular belief? Can we want what we already...
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Brain Science: Can Heartbreak Explain the Mind, Mental Health?
During heartbreak, the same thought about the quality of an ex may become undesirable, from what used to be desirable. The contents of the thought are similar, yet the feeling is different. What does...
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Desire as a Doorway to Your Life Force – Cosmo Meens
Knowing and speaking your desires can lead to you having more of what you want, since desire is a powerful catalyst for meaningful and exciting experiences. Many men, unfortunately, shut down their...
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3 Signs He’s Not Interested in You
You’ve been trying forever to get his attention. You’ve taken extra care with your appearance. You’ve put yourself in his presence, hoping he’ll make lingering eye contact or conversation. You’ve...
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5 Elements of a Welcoming Invitation: The Art of Initiation
In my last blog, The Art of Initiation (part 1) you read about why it’s important to master the art of initiation. I use the term art, because with seduction and initiation there is no formula to...
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Love at First Sight Means Sexual Desire at First Sight
What draws you to a specific person? Let’s explore the range of emotions you might be experiencing… You’re drawn by their exceptional qualities. You sense a strong foundation in them. Their...
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How Women Change in an Affair?
What one man wrote about his affair partner: I knew you before you were married. I lusted for you then and, of course, now. I have watched you change from our years together. From a woman with no...
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Creating Your Ideal Life: The Transformative Power of Mindful Visualization
Visualize And Create! Unlock your true potential and manifest the life you desire. Dive into the art of visualization and learn how to harness the power of your thoughts and emotions to create...
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The 3 Most Important Things You Can Do to Have a Better Sex Life
If there’s one thing I receive more emails about on a weekly basis than anything else, it’s sex. How do I get more sex from my partner? How do I have better sex? How can I last longer? How do I get my...
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Embracing Your Desires with Trust!!!
Imagine a world where you couldn’t f-ck things up, where your actions flowed from authenticity. What would you say? How would you present yourself? Consider a space where it’s entirely safe to trust...
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